Goody-Good
Generally the demographic of Christian men are not subtitled with the words “Bad Boy". Secular society sees us as weak, goody-goods, who need God for a crutch. This is not necessarily a bad thing because according to our lifestyle handbook “The Bible", we are called to live life as a goody-good in the secular worldview. For example, Luke 6:28 says, “If someone strikes you on your cheek, turn to him the other also, and if someone steals your cloak, do not stop him. How can we be tough if we can’t even fight in self defense or fight for the things we own? And any sign of rebellion goes out the window in Romans where it tells us to “be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody?. This verse basically tells us to always live by the rules no matter what they are. Then there’s good old Thessalonians 4 telling us to “make it your ambition to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business…? This doesn’t sound like much fun! I mean ambition, which means seeking achievement and success, sounds good, but the passage goes on to say “lead a quiet life?. What!? How can I be ambitious about being quiet? How can I be any woman’s Knight in shining armor if I can’t defend her from being mugged on the street? Or can’t take her night swimming after park hours? Or even yell from the top of my lungs in Time square that I love her?

I know I’m looking at these verses in a very literal light, but honestly, when can I have some fun and show women the mysterious, unpredictable dangerous side of being a Christian man?

Sex, Drugs, Rock and Roll

Being a bad boy does not have anything to do with sex, drugs and rock and roll. It does not have to do with being tough or having an attitude. It doesn’t have to do with cigarettes, tattoos and leather. It is all about being courageous and going against the grain. As Christians, we are the supreme rebels. We always have to go against culture and stand out of the crowd. It was easy for me to kick back a few beers, cuss up a storm and get in a few brawls when I was young, but I wasn’t courageous enough to tell my friends about Jesus. Respect and street credit come from standing strong in the face of adversity and ridicule, not bending under pressure. If you stick true to your beliefs and be a man of integrity, independent of what is cool and the thing to do, people will truly look up to you in the end.

The Ultimate Hero

Jesus upheld a good example for us all. He was humble, kind, loving, patient, understanding, wise and gentle. But he was also courageous, an electrifying speaker, a dashing personality, and best of all, he stood for what he believed. He’s also the hero in the best selling book of all time. 6,000,000,000 copies sold! Even compared to Tupac, Eminem, James Dean, Marlon Brando, Sean Penn, Dennis Rodman, and Collin Farrell, Jesus is the most well known name of all time! This is so because He was courageous enough to live and die for what he believed.
If you, my friend, are a Christian, and live according to the Bible, you are mysterious and, therefore, enticing and attractive, especially to women. Honestly, isn’t this the image we want to cultivate instead of the push-over, pansy, nice guy? Women should witness boldness, courage and purpose in the way we live our lives. Here are a few extra tips on how to be a “Bad Boy��? in the eyes of the ladies without compromising your beliefs. The accompanying websites will help you do your research.

6 Bad Boy Options

1.Adventure sport -Rock climbing, kite-surfing, car racing, snowboarding, surfing, paintball, skateboarding, bmx racing, motocross ��"these sports scream adventure and have an element of danger that make girls tell you to be safe, which is always a good thing.
complete coverage of adventure sports

2. Motorcycle - Buy and learn how to ride a motorcycle, because if there’s a vehicle on the road that boasts danger, it’s the classic cycle. Make sure to get proper training before you go for a test drive, but once you can handle your own, order a custom chopper. Believe me, it will turn heads.
Dream Bikes
Christian Motorcycle Association

3. Combat Sports - Learn a combat sport such as boxing, karate, kickboxing, Kendo (art of Samurai swordsmanship), or taekwando. Although these sports are a little controversial in the Christian community, ask Evander Holyfield or George Foreman if you can still be a Christian and a boxer at the same time.

4. Street Ministry - Start a street team that goes into the toughest neighborhoods or countries to witness God’s truth. Little can be more courageous than this. You are putting yourself out there and asking God to protect you.
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5. Dangerous career - Firefighters, rescue teams, police officers, military officers, FBI Agents. Obviously, don’t change your career to improve your image, but if you are going into these fields, they have their benefits.
How to become an FBI Agent

6. Rock and Roll-- Learn how to rock the guitar or bang on the drums. Few things are sexier to a woman than a man who can strum a few tight riffs.

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